History
About 10 years ago, I had a page on the history of
Thailand, but it was lost at some point. It's just
as well because after exploring all regions of
Thailand and Thai people over 13 years, as well as
Lao, Cambodian and some Burmese, I've got a much
greater understanding of the culture and natural
history of the Thai people. Thus, I have started the
process of rewriting a history page.
In
response to an academic inquiry about the origin of
the word "Siam":
There is not complete academic agreement on the
origin of the name Siam, but I think it's fairly
certain that the prevailing school of thought is
correct: It comes from a Chinese word "sian" (or
hsien) which meant "gold". The Chinese words for "sian"
and "Siam" are spelled identically.
(Chinese is not a phonetic language, e.g., the same
spelled word in Chinese in two different parts of
China can have two entirely different
pronunciations, as I found out from a Chinese
associate during a visit to China.) Chinese records
going back centuries before westerners arrived refer
to what's present day Thailand as well as the Thai
people as "Sian".
There is also the Shan state and Shan people in
Myanmar (Burma) along the northern Thai border
between Thailand and China, and it is also thought
by many of these scholars that the name Shan also
came from Sian / Hsien.
You
can find Thai language in some parts of southern
China. It's also notable that Indians called old
Siam "Suvarnabhumi" which means "Land of Gold", and
Suvarnabhumi (pronounced like "Suwannapoom") is the
name of the new international airport in Bangkok.
There is considerable historical literature
referring to places in modern day Thailand which in
early recorded history were centers for gold trade
and perhaps the origin of some gold.
In
later recorded history, the Siamese were known for
adorning religious icons and structures with gold in
large quantities (which attracted Burmese invaders),
and the Thais still rub on small, thin foil leafs of
gold onto Buddha statues as everyday rituals.
Thailand was previously known as Siam, and the Thai
people as Siamese, until 1939 when a constitution
amendment changed it to Thailand and Thai people.
Thai
People
There
have been books written about Thai people and how to
deal with them in personal and business realms. In
this article, I will keep it to just a few pages.
Of
course, not all Thai people are the same, so it
would be nonsense to say that all Thai people are
one way or another. In this article I describe the
average or typical Thai person, and the tendencies
of the culture relative to others in the world.
Nonetheless, there are always exceptions and all
sorts.
There are variations in Thai culture depending on
where you are -- in a suburban community vs. in an
expat go-go bar, in an office, in the country, and
which region of Thailand. The variations are not
great, except if you go to the go-go bars (where
they tend to be quite crude, aggressive, mercenary,
selfish, and greedy, albeit less than equivalent
places in other countries, so I hear).
The
values and traits of Thai people include these:
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Relaxed, not in a hurry about anything, cannot
be hurried
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Polite interaction, pleasant
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Family, friends, community and good food are
most important
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Be
happy, have fun ("sanuk")
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Avoid conflict, keep your cool, don't lose your
temper
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In
case of conflict, stay cool and reasonable, and
compromise
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Follow the authority(s)
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Conform fairly well, but tolerate
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Tolerate different kinds of people
Some people think they can come to Thailand and
throw money around to get Thai people to do things.
Sure, you can find some Thai people like that.
However, it will be a much lower percentage than in
other countries, and the results may not be the
same.
Forcefulness and ruling by fear have even less
longterm results than in other parts of the world.
Notably, Thais are very good at cooperating with
each other to cover up things from the boss and
avoiding confrontation.
Thais don't tend to be self-starters or very
creative people (except at humorous things). There
aren't many inventions in the world from Thailand.
While some products are improved here, many others
are just made more cheaply which includes cutting
corners on quality.
Discipline must be maintained in a workplace. What
tends to work best is constant auditing whereby they
know they are being audited, and a little bit of
fear of the big boss. Not too much fear or they will
go crazy and leave, but not too much fear or "when
the cat's away, the mice will play". Be firm, yet
polite. To be respectable, you should be respectful.
If
confrontation is necessary, it is extremely
important to do it in private, not in front of other
people. Thais are much more sensitive to "Saving
face", which is much more important in Thai culture
than in European descended cultures.
If
you learn the language, then you will learn the
"polite particles" in the Thai language for which no
equivalent exists in Western society. (Learning the
Thai language and customs is a good way to learn the
culture.)
Thai culture is fairly homogenous, compared to many
other countries and regions of the world. It is
remarkable that the Thai language is the native
language of the indigenous people over such a large
country, approximately 1500 km by 500 km. (In fact,
the Lao (Laos) language is very similar to the Thai
language, using essentially the same written
characters and most of the same words. The Thai
language also extends into the southernmost edge of
China.)
The
"religion" is Buddhism (and there has never been a
war or fighting over Buddhism), which over 90% of
Thais call themselves. The main exception is the
small southernmost provinces bordering Malaysia
which are predominantly Muslim.
The
homogeneity of Thailand's culture and language has
contributed to the peaceful and smooth nature of
Thai people.
Thai
Names
Thais are given a nickname by their family at a very
young age, and this is what family, friends, and
familiar associates call each other. This name is
NOT a legal name, and does not exist anywhere in
legal paperwork.
Thais are given a legal first name and surname at
birth, but no middle name. When you first know a
Thai person in an office or other fairly formal
setting, then you address them as Khun [Firstname].
Later, this may switch to their nickname.
However, in very informal settings, Thai people will
introduce themselves by their nickname only, and you
may never know their real name unless you ask.
The
nicknames are usually one syllable words though some
are two syllable and sometimes three. Their
translations mean silly things like "shrimp", "baby
chicken", "eyes", "gift", and lots of other things.
Regional Differences
There are some slight regional differences between
Thai people as they see each other.
Thais from the northwest are seen as the most
compassionate and peace loving.
Thais from the northeast are the poorest on average,
and tend to be the most resilient as well as the
best labor pool for unpleasant jobs. Many Thais in
the northeast are a merge between Thai and Lao
(Laotian) culture, and in fact a lot of Lao words
are spoken within Thai sentences there.
Thais from the south (down the western peninsula)
tend to be more independent minded and a little bit
more assertive. This is a long coastline and you can
see in their features that there is a lot of
immigrant blood in them. Similar things can be said
about parts of the southeast, but the southeast is a
small part of the population.
Bangkok is populated mostly by people from all over
Thailand who came to Bangkok for work or higher
education.
In
the big city of Bangkok, Thais tend to be much less
community oriented, like people in any big city in
the world. There is a stark difference between city
people and country people in Thailand.
Chinese Thais
There have been many Chinese immigrants over the
past few hundred years. Many Thai families have
Chinese blood in them. In most of them, you cannot
see any cultural difference; nonetheless, in MANY
partly or wholly "Chinese Thai" families there is a
MAJOR difference between them and mainstream
Thais.
Most Chinese came to Thailand due to crop failures
in China or just looking for better opportunities
overseas, and so many arrived destitute. Most of the
immigrants actually didn't leave offspring, but many
did survive and thrive here based on sheer effort
and smarts.
A
large subset of Chinese immigrants have created
descendants instilled with a strong work ethic and
who value education. When you look at the top people
in the banks, business, and society, you will see a
disproportionate percentage of Chinese Thais.
It
is a nice blend of work ethic, education, and
pleasant Thai ways.
There are some interesting studies about why
Thailand has achieved a relatively high per capita
income for the Asian region, and modernity with good
infrastructure, compared to other countries, despite
the fact that Thailand was the only country in the
region never colonized.
One
of the most interesting analyses is that it's
because the Thai people were much more tolerant of
immigrants, and readily assimilated them into Thai
society, rather than the usual tribal ways of
bigotry, xenophobia, resistance and overly
nationalistic laws against immigrants. The old Thai
kings especially fostered the assimilation of
immigrants.
(Of
course, the United States did likewise in the 1700s.
Also, 2500 years ago, Rome was originally a low
class poor town in Italy, but was known as the most
tolerant and hospitable town for immigrants.)
This hospitality extends into the present time,
which is a major reason why Thailand is a favored
destination for tourists and businesspeople alike.
Including myself, who has travelled around Asia and
settled down in Thailand!
Thai
Culture Upon Arrival
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The practical yet important things about Thai
culture are discussed in subsections of this
website, embedded into pages on specific topics
-- in context, not separated and put into this
section.
When you hit the ground in Thailand, here's what
stands out most:
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The pace is very slow, unlike most of the rest
of Asia.
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The cost of things is less, except in the
foreigner areas. There just aren't many hustlers
in Thailand per capita.
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Most people are easygoing, soft-spoken and
gentle. Politeness is the norm in Thai society.
You must be fairly respectful before you will be
well respected.
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The language barrier is one of the worst in the
newly industrialized world. Mainstream Thais
cannot speak English, though they can read and
write a fair amount. There is plenty of written
English around, but if you haven't traveled the
world much, the different alphabet here can be
intimidating.
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Bangkok is remarkably safe for foreigners,
compared with other countries and especially big
cities. There are a few exceptions: certain
places within certain tourist hot spots, and an
occasional slum that's overrun by drug addicts.
(Most "slums" by western standards are actually
fairly safe.)
Of
all the places I've been, Thailand is in the top
class in terms of safety -- despite the low per
capita income.
Thailand is a predominantly Buddhist country (mainly
Theravada Buddhism) mixed in with a lot of Thai
animism. Approximately 95% of the inhabitants of
Thailand are Buddhist.
In
Thai culture, to lose your cool is to lose face. In
interactions, you get furthest when you are polite.
Excessive impatience and assertiveness generally
result in others turning the other way, including
officials and vendors, basically avoiding you and
tuning you out. Patience usually results in a strong
effort to help you when your turn comes.
Class is important in Thailand, and if you don't
show any class, you won't get much respect. The
class of strangers is judged on-the-spot based on
appearance and behavior.
Thai culture is one of the most civil civilizations
in the world.
Here are just a few, of some of the
most important rules.
Do Smile: Thailand is known as
the land of smiles. Thai's do not
necessarily smile about something like
we do in the west. They smile for a
variety of other reasons too. To say
hello or thank you, to make a request,
to apologize, to smooth over bad
feelings or to show embarrassment.
Do show respect for the king:
Thai people show great respect for their
king and they expect visitors to do so
too. The national anthem is played twice
a day (typically at 8am and 6 pm) and
also before every film at the cinema.
Everyone is expected to stand whilst it
is playing. You should never insult or
joke about the king or royal family.
Do show respect for their main
religion, for the Buddha, and for monks.
Shorts or tank tops should not be worn
in a temple, and shoes should be removed
before entering. It is considered very
improper for women to touch a monk.
Do not touch anyone on the head.
The head is considered to be very
sacred.
Do not point your feet at anyone or
anything. This is quite hard for a
westerner to follow as, without
realising it, we do in some
circumstances seem to use our feet quite
a lot e.g closing or opening doors. I
never realised how much I use my feet
until I was made very conscious of it in
Thailand.
Do not step over anyone instead walk
around them.
Lastly, Enjoy Your Stay in Thailand With
Absolute Holidays !!
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